Friday, January 27, 2012

Hope....

Ever had one of those days that you weren't in a bad mood but you weren't really in a good mood either? One of those days where you don't understand why things happen they way they do or why people act a certain way. A day when you question every single decision you have ever made. I don't have those days often but sometimes I do. When this happens something else most spectacular happens. God sends encouragement to me and then everything is put back into perspective and my world makes sense again. 

Today was my "one of those days" and, true to form, God sent me a message via a dear friend and as I was reading the story below things became very clear to me and my day was instantly better and my attitude changed. Thank you to the sweet friend that sent this to me and thank you God for knowing I needed encouragement. I hope you enjoy the story as much as I did:


A king who did not believe in the goodness of God,  had a slave who, in all circumstances would always say “my king, do not be discouraged, because everything God does is perfect. He makes no  mistakes!”

One day they went hunting and along the way a wild  animal attacked the king. His slave managed to kill the animal, but could not  prevent his majesty from losing a finger. Furious and  without showing his gratitude for being saved, the nobleman asked

      "Is  God good? If He was good, I would not have been attacked and lost my finger."

       The slave replied:

      "My king, despite all these  things, I can only tell you that God is good, and he knows why these things  happened. What God does is perfect. He is never wrong!"

       Outraged by the response, the king ordered the arrest of his slave.

       Later, the King left for another hunt, this time alone.  He was captured by savages who engaged in human sacrifices. On the altar and ready to sacrifice the nobleman, the savages discovered that their victim did not have one of his fingers. According to them, only a whole person with all his/her parts intact could be offered to the gods. The  King without a finger was deemed an abominable sacrifice for their gods. So they released the King.

       Upon his return to the palace, the King  authorized the release of his slave. He received the slave affectionately.

      He asked his slave, "my dear, God was really good  to me! I was almost killed by the wild men, but for lack of a single finger, I  was let go! But I have a question: if God is so good, why did he allow me to put  you in jail?"

       The slave answered, "my King, if I had gone  with you on this hunt, I would have been sacrificed instead because I have no  missing finger. Remember everything God does is perfect. He is never wrong. He  made you keep me in jail so I would not be with you on the hunt."

      
       Often we complain about life, and negative things that happen to us, forgetting that nothing is random and that everything has a purpose.

       Every morning, offer your day to God, don't be in a rush.

       Ask God to inspire your thoughts, guide your actions, and  ease your feelings. And do not be afraid. God is never wrong!

      You know why this message is for you? I do not know, but God knows,  because He
never makes mistakes.......

       The path of God  and his word is perfect, without impurities. He is the way of
all those who trust in Him...

Wednesday, January 18, 2012

2012...

2012 is in full swing. Chris, the girls and I are busy, busy, busy. Work and school are back in high gear and life is back to normal. Being the planner that I am, I have already begun thinking about Spring cleaning and re-arranging. But first, Allison's 17th birthday is on Friday. UGH!! Where did the time go? This time 17 years ago I was anxiously awaiting her arrival. Ashley was 3 1/2 and ready to be a big sister.  Oh how I do miss that time....well maybe not the pregnant part but I do miss little ones. 


Chris has some time off in February sooooooo the "honey do" list is ready for him to tackle while he's home.  Of course, I might be able to help him with some of it since my dear sweet husband gave me my very on ladies tool kit for Christmas and it's PINK!!! I was so excited when I opened it because I have been asking for a pink tool kit for months. It's perfect. I'm always looking for a screwdriver or hammer and now I have my very own! LOL! We have some fun planned while he's home too. It won't be all work and no play. My cousin, her husband and their sweet baby are coming from Atlanta for a visit. I'm really excited to get to spend some time with them. It has been a while since we have been able to hang out. 

2012 is shaping up to be a good one and promises to be a busy one too!! 







Thursday, January 5, 2012

Perfection...


Through age and experience, I have come to realize that people are going make choices that I may not agree with and they may have points of view that I do not share. However, this is part of what makes us individuals.  I think life has thrown some curveballs at me in order to show me that people are not perfect  and most especially, neither am I. However, if I love God I must afford these people the kindness and mercy that God gives to me each and every day. None of us are perfect and none of us are worthy of His divine love but He gives it to us unconditionally and without hesitation. Now does this mean that I force myself to be the best friend to every person I know....of course, NOT.  


If someone is deliberately unkind to me I do not hate them. I pray for them. I will distance myself from them because I am not going to allow myself to be mistreated. And I am aware that those who set out to steal my joy have lost their own. These same people fail to recognize that they are in control of their own happiness and should only be concerned with such. I have also found that nothing irritates people more than being polite. 

Chris, I love you and thank you for loving me in spite of my imperfections!!


Sunday, January 1, 2012

Happy New Year!!!

2012 is off to a fantastic start!! This has been a wonderful weekend. ZBB in Nashville kicked off the fun and it wrapped up with the ZBB New Year's Eve show in Atlanta....well actually it was wrapped up with a trip to a 24 hour diner with some amazing and very funny friends. I must say the highlight of the entire adventure was getting to share my New Year's kiss with my sweet, sweet husband. I was initially concerned that we might miss this yearly tradition because he was performing; however, just before the stroke of midnight the guys stopped playing.  I hurried to the stage and climbed up on, what seemed to me to be, the highest drum-riser ever (it was a little scary up that high), and counted down "10, 9, 8, 7, 6, 5, 4, 3, 2, 1 Happy New Year" then kissed my soul-mate, best friend and the other half of my heart. Ahhhhh.......it was a great night!!!  After the show we were starving. We decided, along with several of our friends, to search for food. The only thing open was a 24 hour diner a few blocks from our hotel. I will not bore you with the details but I have not laughed that hard in a minute. The walk was funny, the wait at the diner was funny, sitting at the table was funny and getting back to the hotel was funny. For the better part of 3 hours I felt as if I was living a sitcom!! I do so love my friends!!

This has been a wonderful holiday season. Happy New Year!!!