Sunday, December 18, 2011

Merry Christmas to My Sweet Grandmothers

Busy day today. Chris, the girls, Ashley's boyfriend, Zach and I drove to Georgia to have Christmas with each of my grandmothers. My maternal grandmother lives in an assisted living facility and we visited her first. Upon our arrival and entrance into the building, we walked around a corner and she was coming down the hall to greet us. I wish that I had a picture of the way her face lit up when she saw us. But then again, she has always been so excited to see her grandchildren when any of us would go for a visit. We sat with her at what she called the "bingo" table and listened to her talk about playing and winning. She also talked about how it didn't seem like Christmas to her because she hasn't been baking cakes for the last two weeks in preparation for the holiday. I couldn't help but reflect on past Christmases spent visiting at her house. Our visit with her came to an end much to soon. I hated to leave her there. It seemed as if we were leaving her there all alone; however, when we left she was rallying her friends for a round of bingo. We then headed to see my paternal grandmother. She lives with my aunt and, as I suspected, she lit up like a roman candle when we walked through the door.  She loves to have her family around her. We ate and visited. It was a wonderful time. Again, it was much to short. 

In case it wasn't obvious a couple of blogs back, I am feeling very nostalgic this Christmas. As I get older and family becomes more precious to me than ever, I wish that I could have them closer.

Sunday, December 11, 2011

Happily Ever After is Real.....

Saturday night I participated in celebrating a milestone that most married couples rarely reach these days. I helped throw a surprise 61st wedding anniversary party for a very special and dear couple. They have been like a second set of parents to me since I was a little girl and are two of the sweetest people I have ever known.  And yes, you read correctly.....they have been married for 61 years!!!

They arrived, we yelled "surprise" and later cut a cake that read "Happy 61st Anniversary." It was then when it occurred to me that there are very few couples who stay together this long. My great-grandparents were married for 74 years (my great-grandfather was in his early 90's when he passed and my great-grandmother lived to be 100). Each set of my grandparents were married for over 50 years prior to the passing of my grandfathers and my mom and dad will celebrate their 45th anniversary in April. However, I look around and realize that they are all the exception to the rule not the norm. 

The couple with whom we were celebrating are very happy and seem perfectly content in their marriage even after all these years. This also made me think about my paternal grandparents who acted like teenagers in love well into their 70's. They were always holding hands or taking care of each other in some endearing way. I tell Chris regularly that I want for us to be that way too.  He always answers with "we will be....remember I told you that I'm going to chase you until you catch me."  Fairytales do exist and happily ever after is very, very real......

Note: Reading this blog I realize that each of these marriages have lasted for so long because of the selflessness of the partners involved. Putting your spouse and their needs above your own is the true meaning of love. 


Sunday, December 4, 2011

Holiday Reflection and Creativity....

The Christmas season is in full swing and I am already exhausted!! However, I am ahead of the game this year. I started shopping months ago so my shopping is 99% complete. Yay me!! 

This year is really reminding me of how much I miss my girls being little kids. They love Christmas but as they get older the holiday evolves into something more adult and far less child-like. Part of my joy in Christmas was always the look of wonder and excitement in their eyes. The tree, lights and presents created a level of anticipation for them that brought me so much joy. They still get excited but it's different now. I don't have a little one pulling on my leg begging to help put up the decorations anymore. 

Allison and I watched Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer together last week. It was fun. I made a wreath for our front door today which put me in the holiday spirit. After I hung it, I stood on our front porch looking at my creation, reflecting on Christmases past and giving thanks to God that Jesus is the Reason for the Season. 

It's going to be a very Merry Christmas!!!